Thursday, December 20, 2012

Why Fiona Apple's "Werewolf" is the best song of the year




                2012 was year that saw the indie folk reach what will surely be its mainstream pinnacle as the success of Mumford and Sons paved the way for bands like Of Monsters and Men and The Lumineers to permeate radio waves all summer long. Indie folk has been a genre strongly associated with earnest sentiment - one only needs a quick listen to the Fleet Foxes magnificent 2011 release "Helplessness Blues" to experience the overflowing sincerity behind the sweet melodies and arrangements that this sound can produce. With extreme commercial success, however, suddenly that indie folk sincerity seems to be slipping away. The Lumineers' "Ho Hey" was transformed into a commercial jingle for Blue Moon beer, Mumford and Sons were playing any and all music award shows, including that one held over at MTV, and the overexposure to Monsters' "Little Talks" had people who normally don't veer from the top 40 station screaming out "HEY" whenever there was a pause in conversation.
                Commercial success and the changes that go along with are of course inevitable in the music world, but to see a whole subgenre blow up so quickly was surprising and while exposure of a different sound to a wider audience has many merits, there are also plenty of consequences. Whether or not the emotion in these songs was sincere when they were recorded, they are now certified hits and as a result, they don't ring as true or feel as honest as their forbearers like Edward Sharpe's "Home" or Head in the Heart's "Lost in my Mind."  Finding authenticty in 2012 therefore had to be located outside the folk world.
                Thankfully, 2012 was also the year Fiona Apple, never an artist accused of insincerity (or rushing out and album too fast or titled too curtly), put out her first studio album in seven years. While Fiona's vocals have always been the highlight of all her work, her new album "The Idler Wheel" stripped away the more lush arrangements of albums past leaving it exposed with mostly just a piano and her signature sultry voice to defend itself. "Werewolf" embodies this minimalist approach perfectly and exemplifies how less can indeed be more when you are singing about at topic as common as a breakup.  The song is lyrically built on basic metaphors and similes describing the equal responsibility of two parties involved in a split (he was the werewolf, but she was the full moon) and the sorrow of owning up to such incompatibility. Catchy and powerful in its simplicity, the tune is also awash with sincerity, from that fragile pitch in Apple's voice that hides whether she is about to belt out another verse or perhaps burst into tears, to the heartbreaking acknowledgment of "We can still support each other/All we have to do's avoid each other."
                What ultimately defines the song is the sound of children playing in the background that catches you completely off guard when it inexplicably comes into focus two-thirds of the way through. The playful screams of these children add a haunting tinge to the somber melody - reminiscent of the children's voices in Radiohead's "15 Step" - but they also serve to represent the full spectrum of human emotion, from the innocent beginnings of adolescent laughter to the pains of adult experience and reflection.  When Fiona sings "Nothing wrong when/A song ends/In a minor key" juxtaposed on top of the lighthearted cries of youth we realize that while there may be nothing wrong with a sad ending, it doesn't make it any less sad, and perhaps the realization that what's best for us isn't always what makes us happiest is the ultimate sign of what it means to grow up. This sentiment is in complete contrast with the Lumineers' powerhouse "I belong with you, you belong with me" lyric of "Ho Hey" that goes down much easier but seems more like fantasy. Both outlooks pack an emotional punch, but the one that feels most genuine this year is the one that isn't also trying to sell you an orange flavored beer.

                 

Monday, October 8, 2012

Can I get your user name?


I find it bothersome that there’s still an internet dating stigma in the social media obsessed world we live in. Granted, there has been a definite evolution of its image over time; fifteen years ago the mascot for an internet dater was an obese man with Pringles crumbs strewn about his laptop, typing with one hand and petting a dead cat with the other. It’s certainly overcome that extreme representation, to be sure, but it’s still poked fun at quite a bit both in the media and socially among friends. But why?  Can you really differentiate anyone as being “peculiar” or “desperate” for participating in online dating when you consider the amount of electronic correspondence we all participate in, not to mention personal digital details most of us give away freely?

Consider the average facebook profile. It alone reveals more information than one could glean from 10 first dates.  Throw Google into the mix, one can now look up your 400m hurdle time from your JV track meet before you even get coffee together. Public awareness of online dating has also increased a hundred-fold. Primetime commercials for Match.com and eHarmony have become as commonplace as advertisements for Tide. Slave to your strict religious beliefs? With ChristianMingle, Jdate and countless others there’s a site for you too! Sure, some people on these sites are creeper weirdoes, but there were creeper weirdoes at the bar or your work or your gym or wherever people met people before we became addicted to our silly electronic screens.  

Even among people already participating in online dating the stigma still provokes shame. For example, the “What’s the most private thing I’m willing to admit” question on OKCupid is used constantly by site members to help take away some of the embarrassment they feel for using  an online dating profile while at the same time actively using the site. OKCupid, for those of you who aren’t single white or well-off 18-32 year olds living in or close to urban areas, is an extremely popular free dating website. Your dating profile is composed of 10 rather ordinary questions, one of which is the one mentioned above. About 30-40 percent of the profiles I read answer the question like this: “The most private thing I’ll admit? That I’m on a dating website! OMG, like, I CAN’T even believe it, I CAN’T CAN’T CAN’T.” (there’s a bit of hyperbole at the end, but, you get it).

Let’s break down the two things this kind of response suggests.

1) You think you’re too good to be on this site. To this I say, I mean, things can’t be going that great for you dating-wise if you’ve already created an online dating profile, right? You probably aren’t photographed in People magazine holding hands with Ryan Reynolds. You probably don’t have any missed calls from professional athletes. Sure, you could be among the more physically attractive people on the site but you probably have a lot more competition than you think, and, bee tee dubs, you might want to consider that picture your friend tagged you in where you’re taking a shot without the use of your hands more “private” than a simple innocuous dating profile.

2) You think people who use the internet to date are weird. Thanks! Let the judging begin! Here’s something though, no one is walking around at that hip bar on the corner wearing a sandwich board of your OKC profile , it can only be viewed by people who ALSO are on a dating website. Do you think this was all our first choice? Do you think we all said “Well, I could just get that waitress’s phone number and take her out tomorrow if I’m feeling especially lonely.” No. This is the product of necessity, the result of insecurity and past failures and social anxiety. Don’t pretend you aren’t one of us, I don’t care how many carefully cropped pictures of you skydiving or frolicking in a waterfall you have.

Let’s own up to it and get over it. This is the how we relate in this day in age. We facebook. We text. We put hastags in front of words as if we are oblivious to the complete nonsense it will look like to future generations. And sometimes we meet dates off the internet. Is meeting someone without any benefit from the information superhighway a rare occurrence? No, I’m sure it still happens to abnormally confident and/or good-looking people all the time. But for most of us? This is the real world now. We all need to either stop acting embarrassed and become ok with it or wait for one of those EMP pulses to completely knock out the electric grid, ending online dating once and for all.

If that happens, meet me behind the fallen skyscraper on Market street, the one recently abandoned by apocalypse zombies.

 I’ll be the guy in the blue shirt."